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Looking Both Ways: 2026 Edition

I think the most important thing I learned was that having grace for oneself is a gift. Make sure you give yourself that gift, too, okay?

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Mental Health 1 Comment January 5, 2026January 3, 2026 8 Minutes

Halfway There: 2025 Edition

How are we halfway through this year already?  I mean, sure, we’ve had a lot going on this year for the last ten months but still, July?!? I’ve actually been quite happy to flip the calendar, this year, as each month has gotten a little bit easier after managing the death of two mother’s, a … Continue reading Halfway There: 2025 Edition →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear Leave a comment June 30, 2025July 20, 2025 7 Minutes

2024: Look Both Ways Before Crossing

Another one of my favorite articles as I take a moment to glance both backward and forward. This year? Definitely a "Look Both Ways" moment as 2024 felt an awful lot like a never-ending game of Frogger. There were many times, in 2024, when I felt like I was about to cross the street safely … Continue reading 2024: Look Both Ways Before Crossing →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear 1 Comment January 6, 2025January 5, 2025 8 Minutes

2024 Check-In. Halfway There. Yikes.

Remember way back in January when many of us mapped out our goals for the year? Yeah, me neither. But I do like to check in with myself each year as we fly past the halfway point. And, good grief, are we flying. As a writer, it may be a little too easy to check … Continue reading 2024 Check-In. Halfway There. Yikes. →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear Leave a comment July 8, 2024July 8, 2024 4 Minutes

The Grace Period

Oh, hey, how about that, 2020...how'd you get here? I wrapped up 2009 with a tour of the Baltic Sea region - fluttering around from Stockholm to Moscow to Estonia to Oslo to London with a few other stops sprinkled in. I had no idea that would be my last jaunt abroad as I had … Continue reading The Grace Period →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Marriage, Thoughts on Parenting 2 Comments January 6, 2020 6 Minutes
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On one hand, I tend to do everything with intention, very thoughtfully planned out. On the other hand, I dive in without looking back.

Why? Delusion.

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As I left the Richmond airport, two weeks ago, my phone pinged announcing a voicemail that had been received while I was in the air. I was returning from a second attempt to avoid the feelings surrounding the first anniversary of my mother’s death, arriving home on that very first anniversary date.  Because I was…

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Navigating Grief: One Year Later

Navigating Grief: One Year Later

Today marks one year since losing my mom. It’s been both the longest and shortest year, during which I learned a hell of a lot more about grief than I ever wanted to. 

For instance, did you know there is no trophy for Best at Grieving?

by Jyl Barlow February 23, 2026February 19, 2026
Doggy Style: The Luge

Doggy Style: The Luge

As I was shitting my pants, I was praying that our dog missed all the trees in her sledding path (she did) and remained upright (she did).

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