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A Handmade Goodbye

It really wasn’t that hard, except for the tears that kept filling my eyes as I pushed the needle through the quilt's sturdy fabric to form the words, "Love, Judy."

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Mental Health 1 Comment January 26, 2026January 23, 2026 5 Minutes

Wave Season? Tsunami, Actually.

January's tsunami has not mixed well with a quiet morning, a cup of coffee within arm's reach, and a few hours dedicated to mapping out my Monday morning epiphany.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Being a Writer, Thoughts on Travel Leave a comment January 19, 2026January 19, 2026 1 Minute

An Unexpected Reminder of My “Why”.

In the land of travel planning, not every booking is a big one, but sometimes, the smallest booking of all is the one that offers the biggest reward. Sometimes, that means an early drive to the airport on a day that I'm not going anywhere at all.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Travel Leave a comment January 12, 2026January 12, 2026 4 Minutes

Looking Both Ways: 2026 Edition

I think the most important thing I learned was that having grace for oneself is a gift. Make sure you give yourself that gift, too, okay?

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Mental Health 1 Comment January 5, 2026January 3, 2026 8 Minutes

F**king First Times? What the Sh*t.

Current status? Buckled up with a bit more confidence than I had a week ago.  Oh, and a giant box of tissues, just in case.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment December 29, 2025December 28, 2025 4 Minutes

Father Christmas had One Job. One.

Nothing says, "I have my life together" like a holiday card that arrives weeks before the actual holidays, right? Well, it’s the thought that counts, I suppose.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Marriage, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment December 22, 2025December 21, 2025 4 Minutes

The Importance of a Baloney Buddy

Growth comes at the edge of discomfort. Does it suck? Sometimes.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts from Whine & Wine, a Podcast by Bearlow Productions, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment December 15, 2025December 14, 2025 3 Minutes

12 Days of Christmas Chaos

This is a season filled with moments that bring glee, the warm fuzzies, and memories. Unfortunately, we often miss those moments while trying to be the perfect host, the perfect guest, the perfect shopper, the perfect gift wrapper, and, well, the list goes on. Screw that.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment December 8, 2025December 7, 2025 8 Minutes

Black Friday Shopping (with Mom)

It’s not the first time I've taken my Mom shopping since she died, tucking her tiny urn into a pocket for a day out. It sounds batshit crazy, I know, but there is something very cathartic about it.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment December 1, 2025November 30, 2025 4 Minutes

A Lost Gem: The Lircle

It’s not that I hadn’t seen Rich in the wild, at this point; it’s that I hadn’t realized how at ease he was in the wild. Any wild at all, as it turned out.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Marriage Leave a comment November 24, 2025November 24, 2025 6 Minutes

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A Handmade Goodbye

A Handmade Goodbye

It really wasn’t that hard, except for the tears that kept filling my eyes as I pushed the needle through the quilt’s sturdy fabric to form the words, “Love, Judy.”

by Jyl Barlow January 26, 2026January 23, 2026
Wave Season? Tsunami, Actually.

Wave Season? Tsunami, Actually.

January’s tsunami has not mixed well with a quiet morning, a cup of coffee within arm’s reach, and a few hours dedicated to mapping out my Monday morning epiphany.

by Jyl Barlow January 19, 2026January 19, 2026
An Unexpected Reminder of My “Why”.

An Unexpected Reminder of My “Why”.

In the land of travel planning, not every booking is a big one, but sometimes, the smallest booking of all is the one that offers the biggest reward.

Sometimes, that means an early drive to the airport on a day that I’m not going anywhere at all.

by Jyl Barlow January 12, 2026January 12, 2026
Looking Both Ways: 2026 Edition

Looking Both Ways: 2026 Edition

I think the most important thing I learned was that having grace for oneself is a gift.

Make sure you give yourself that gift, too, okay?

by Jyl Barlow January 5, 2026January 3, 2026
F**king First Times? What the Sh*t.

F**king First Times? What the Sh*t.

Current status?

Buckled up with a bit more confidence than I had a week ago. 

Oh, and a giant box of tissues, just in case.

by Jyl Barlow December 29, 2025December 28, 2025
Father Christmas had One Job. One.

Father Christmas had One Job. One.

Nothing says, “I have my life together” like a holiday card that arrives weeks before the actual holidays, right?

Well, it’s the thought that counts, I suppose.

by Jyl Barlow December 22, 2025December 21, 2025
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