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Managing Our Marriage with Acronyms.

If you ask for relationship tips from either my husband or me, there is a high chance it will involve an acronym. And it's not even WTF.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Blended Families, Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Marriage, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment June 19, 2023April 13, 2024 7 Minutes

An Ode to Father’s Day: Dadisms

Fathers are often the Ying to our mothering Yang, a much-needed variant that keeps our homes functioning by offering an essential, more palatable opposite side of the parenting coin.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Blended Families 1 Comment June 12, 2023June 11, 2023 6 Minutes

Public Meltdown (thank you, Drew)

God bless you, Drew Barrymore. You always were a Firestarter.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment April 24, 2023April 13, 2024 5 Minutes

Toilet Paper Paws

Are you there, God? It’s me Jyl. It’s me Jyl and, for the third time in five months, I am back on the healing couch. Also, are you mad at me?

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Blended Families, Thoughts on Marriage Leave a comment March 27, 2023March 28, 2023 5 Minutes

The Meatball that Saved Our Marriage.

At the end of each year, I like to reflect back on the moments that shaped it for me. In 2022, a frozen meatball saved our marriage.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Blended Families Leave a comment January 16, 2023January 16, 2023 7 Minutes

Going to the Chapel … someone else’s, but still.

I am fully prepared to amp up my Wedding Pinterest Board as we head into this new year. Okay, yes, I am already married. It’s just that I haven’t been to a wedding in years and 2023 marks my nephew's big day and I may already be out of control.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Family Leave a comment December 26, 2022April 13, 2024 5 Minutes

The Longest One Night Stand

The first time my now-husband told me he loved me, we were standing next to his car in the parking lot of the same restaurant in which we had met four months earlier. It was awkward on many levels.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Marriage Leave a comment September 26, 2022April 13, 2024 3 Minutes

My Father. Oh, How He Has Risen.

It’s an interesting view, as a child, to witness the decline of one parent and the subsequent rise of the other as a need for caretaking develops.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment June 20, 2022April 13, 2024 3 Minutes

Father’s Day Done Right (You’re Welcome)

Men? Men really just want to feel regular fulfillment in each of only four quadrants. Tap into about half of those quadrants each day and you will be giving yours everything he needs to maintain a sense of running bliss that comes with generalized happiness and contentment.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Marriage, Thoughts on Parenting 1 Comment June 13, 2022April 13, 2024 4 Minutes

Take My Money. But only 75%.

I will price shop for actual months before pulling the trigger on just about any purchase, big or small. My husband, on the other hand, is a different story. His story starts with “Once upon a time OH MY GOD ENOUGH WITH THE PRICE SHOPPING JUST BUY IT ALREADY!!!!” 

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Marriage, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment May 23, 2022 4 Minutes

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