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Weekend at Bernies. Or with.

“I can guarantee you one thing. A new purse will never throw up a pair of children’s underwear.” It was a long weekend, full of regrets.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Mental Health, Thoughts on Pets 2 Comments August 11, 2025August 10, 2025 5 Minutes

Life Outside the Disney Bubble

What is life like outside the Disney bubble? Look around. Do you see any Mickey waffles on the stove?

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Mental Health, Thoughts on Travel Leave a comment August 4, 2025 6 Minutes

Chotchkes & Chickens

Was I avoiding my first trip "home?" Well, yes, actually. How'd it go? All the ways.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Aging, Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Mental Health 2 Comments July 28, 2025July 27, 2025 5 Minutes

Clear(ish) Eyes, Full Heart

What’s that saying?  You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t shove its head in for a drink? 

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Blended Families, Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Parenting Leave a comment July 21, 2025July 20, 2025 4 Minutes

Life and Deaf

Of course it’s ridiculous that I’m trying to manage my grief the same way I manage everything else in my life. Of course I can’t make the grieving process more organized or follow a specific series of steps or look the way I want it to look. Of course. But why not?  My counselor looks … Continue reading Life and Deaf →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear 1 Comment July 14, 2025July 13, 2025 5 Minutes

A Prime Time to Grab Some Travel Musts!

It’s been an interesting week in the land of travel as the now viral Netflix documentary “Train Wreck: Poop Cruise” has been the talk of the town. If you have watched it (or plan to), be sure to follow that viewing with a listen to this month’s episode of Whine & Wine, where we interview … Continue reading A Prime Time to Grab Some Travel Musts! →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear Leave a comment July 7, 2025July 6, 2025 6 Minutes

Halfway There: 2025 Edition

How are we halfway through this year already?  I mean, sure, we’ve had a lot going on this year for the last ten months but still, July?!? I’ve actually been quite happy to flip the calendar, this year, as each month has gotten a little bit easier after managing the death of two mother’s, a … Continue reading Halfway There: 2025 Edition →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear Leave a comment June 30, 2025July 20, 2025 7 Minutes

Trans-Versation: Our Story

Apologies for the big lead-up to this post, but it comes with years of thought behind it. While the trans-versation has been a topic within our household for nearly a decade, we have learned to be careful with it outside of our home (further explained below). With recent modifications to "how" transgender youth are being … Continue reading Trans-Versation: Our Story →

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear 4 Comments June 23, 2025June 21, 2025 12 Minutes

At Some Point, Their Journey Becomes Their Journey.

At some point, the travel planning mantra goes, their vacation becomes their vacation. I'm learning that the same is true when raising children.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts from a Frazzled Bear, Thoughts on Parenting, Thoughts on Travel 2 Comments June 16, 2025June 13, 2025 3 Minutes

Tending to My Garden

Mom may not have given me the gift of keeping plants alive, but she did give me the gift of finding comfort in tending to one's garden.

Jyl Barlow Thoughts on Family, Thoughts on Mental Health Leave a comment June 9, 2025June 9, 2025 5 Minutes

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The price of pets? Worth it.

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Hiking the Mendenhall Glacier: A Questionable Adventure

Did I have any business hiking across a glacier in Alaska?

Probably not.

Did I live to tell about it?

Mostly.

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